A little less than a month after the birth of little Cesare Augusto , the new mother Aurora Ramazzotti posts a selfie in a bikini and talks about the difficult relationship with the mirror and her body on social media.

A thwarted bond that starts as a child, when "you begin to recognize your reflection in the mirror and from that moment on , a real relationship begins with that reflective surface , one of the most lasting of your life".
«When I was a teenager – he recalls – there were days when I imagined a world without that reflection , I spent hours trying to forget mine and entered the bathrooms with my head down to avoid crossing that image. I'm not sure at what point my relationship with it became so complicated, perhaps around when I began to understand that a simple play of light could condition my entire existence . Everything seemed to be based on that relationship, a fleeting moment capable of upsetting a life, of making one forget the true beauty of the soul, of bringing sickness and crying and everything and more. I didn't know, because I hadn't decided it, it just happened, that a dysfunctional, dangerous relationship was born with that reflected image».
"Like any relationship of that type, moments of calm serenity alternated with furious fights - he continues - Even when everything seemed to be going for the best, even when I caught myself thinking "she's changed, this time for real", it was never like that, I was sewing colorful patches on a ripped jeans. I only realized this after my mistake was in believing that it was by changing that image that I would heal the fragmented relationship. Because it didn't matter how much I tried to make sure that the light reflected differently on my face, on my belly, on the drawings traced by life on my skin. There was something that had to change inside, where no one will ever see».
Today things have changed: « The relationship is going swimmingly, today I no longer play at avoiding that reflected image, today I spend a lot of time observing it. It tells me life, reminds me where I've been and allows me to imagine where I'll go. Maybe it won't be like this forever, but now more than ever I've learned to love her. On "bad" days, instead of looking straight at her harsher judges , we punch each other a little and then go back to caressing each other and I remember that deep down, the poor thing can only show me the shell of me, I'm anything but. .

(Unioneonline/D)

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