Drama forBianca Atzei and her partner Stefano Corti .
In a long post published on Instagram, the Sardinian-born singer told of having lost a child following a miscarriage.
“I want to talk to you about my experience to raise awareness on a topic that is rarely talked about, but which unfortunately affects many couples”, reads a post by the artist, “for more than a year we have been looking for a child. I have often heard myself say: 'don't think about it, the more you think about it, the more it doesn't come'. But how can a woman not think about it every time she gets her period? When you feel ready to become a mother, that turns into the thing you most want in the world. And when time passes, the mind starts playing tricks. You think there may be something wrong and, especially psychologically, a woman begins to suffer. With each passing month, hope fades, but it finds strength in the following month, so much is the desire to have a child. Then they advise you to do more in-depth examinations. Perhaps (personal thinking) it would be appropriate to do them first, to avoid negative mechanisms ".
“So it becomes the important technological aid. It doesn't matter how many hormone injections you have to take in your stomach, if you are less and less in strength and if the path becomes more and more difficult. Go ahead positive, you cling to that 35% chance of getting pregnant. And, after more than a year, it happens: when I saw that positive pregnancy test it was the best emotion of my life ”, said Atzei.
The happiness, however, ended abruptly: “The pregnancy was interrupted after a few months and it was necessary to have surgery. Now I know what it feels like and what it means to pass, in the blink of an eye, from the greatest happiness to the greatest suffering ".
The singer has decided to tell her painful experience to "get rid of something you are not to blame for and for which you must not feel ashamed". And he concludes with a message of hope: “I still keep alive the dream of being able to become a mother. I'll smile again ”.
(Unioneonline / F)
